Dele Alli reveals childhood abuse that led to spell in rehab
Dele Alli
revealed on Thursday that he has recently come out of rehab for a sleeping pill
addiction after struggling to deal with the trauma of suffering sexual abuse as
a child.
The Everton
midfielder, who was once one of English football's brightest talents, told Gary
Neville's "The Overlap" podcast about how he was also dealing drugs
by age eight before his life was changed by being adopted by a new family as a
12-year-old.
Alli, 27,
shot to fame under Mauricio Pochettino at Tottenham and was a key part of the
England side that reached the 2018 World Cup semi-finals.
His career
on the field has been in decline in recent years as he fell out of favour at
Spurs before struggling to make an impact at Everton or on loan at Besiktas
last season.
However, he
explained how those struggles are rooted in a series of childhood traumas that
he tried to block out.
"At six
I was molested by my mum's friend, who was at the house a lot. My mum was an
alcoholic," said Alli.
"Then I
was sent to Africa (to his father) to learn discipline and then I was sent
back. (At) seven I started smoking, eight I started dealing drugs.
"An
older person told me that they wouldn't stop a kid on a bike, so I rode around
with my football, and then underneath I'd have the drugs, that was eight.
"Eleven,
I was hung off a bridge by a guy from the next estate, a man.
"Twelve,
I was adopted... I was adopted by an amazing family like I said, I couldn't
have asked for better people to do what they'd done for me. If God created
people, it was them."
Sleeping
pill problem widespread
Alli added
that he hopes by speaking out he can help others that have suffered similar
abuse.
Prince
William and Alli's former Tottenham teammate Harry Kane were among those to pay
tribute to his bravery in coming forward.
"Brave
and inspirational @dele_official," tweeted the Prince of Wales, who is an
ambassador for mental health charities.
"Discussing
mental health is not a sign of weakness. Let's keep the conversation going.
We're all with you and we wish you the very best."
Kane and
Alli struck up a prolific partnership in the early days of their career
together at Spurs.
"Proud
of @dele_official for speaking out and sharing his experience to try and help
others," tweeted the England captain.
Alli he said
a six-week spell in rehab in the United States has helped rekindle his passion
to get his football career back on track.
"Going
into rehab is definitely scary but I could never have imagined how much I would
get from it and how much it would help me mentally," he said.
"I was
in a bad place. A lot happened when I was younger that I could never
understand."
He also
warned that the dangers of sleeping pill addiction are widespread in football,
where players are often prescribed tablets before and after matches.
"I got
addicted to sleeping tablets and it's probably a problem that not only I have,
I think it's something that's going around more than people realise in
football," he said.
"To
take a sleeping tablet and be ready for the next day is fine, but when you're
broken as I am, it can obviously have the reverse effect because it does work
for the problems you want to deal with."
Everton said
Alli would be focusing on his mental and physical well-being ahead of the new
season, which starts next month.
"Everyone
at Everton respects and applauds Dele's bravery to speak about the difficulties
he has faced, as well as seek the help required," the club said in a
statement.
"Dele
will not be conducting any further interviews in relation to his
rehabilitation, and we ask that his privacy is respected while he continues his
recuperation from injury and receives the full care and support needed for his
physical and mental well-being."
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