Michelle Ntalami on breaking up with LGBTQ lover: Besides the lies and infidelity, I feel extremely used

Michelle Ntalami on breaking up with LGBTQ lover: Besides the lies and infidelity, I feel extremely used

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  • Ntalami took to her Instagram, on Monday, in a two-piece post dubbed "An Open Letter of Truth", saying she had ended her relationship. 
  • "By now, most people knew about my relationship with someone I will address as they/them," Ms Ntalami wrote. 
  • "We mutually agreed that while respecting all legalities and each other’s personal readiness, we shall still love boldly and openly." 

After weeks of speculation that Michelle Ntalami's love boat had hit a snag, she has revealed a slew of issues that sank their ship.

On Monday, Ntalami announced the end of her relationship with her lover on Instagram, in a three-part post titled "An Open Letter of Truth.". 

"By now, most people knew about my relationship with someone I will address as they/them," Ms Ntalami wrote. 

"We mutually agreed that while respecting all legalities and each other’s personal readiness, we shall still love boldly and openly." 

According to the businesswoman, her relationship had earned them fans and inspired couples across the country, but it was now time, to tell the truth, in order to seek healing. 

"Friends, media and blogs and have reached out to me all year to get me to share on the matter. I couldn’t get to speaking about it because of how painful it was. I realized however, that being silent about it is costing me my own sanity and healing.,"she added. 

And when she dropped the truth bombshell, the Kenyan internet lit up, shoving her up the trendsmap which she was still topping on Tuesday morning. 

According to the Marini Naturals founder, she had ended her relationship with her lover on account of wanton infidelity, with multiple partners. 

"Those I suspected and confirmed are two individuals; one a public figure, and the other a less known married woman, a health worker," Ms Ntalami wrote. 

"Eventually, these individuals undoubtedly confirmed the above. I attach screenshots and my responses simply to alleviate denial Despite withholding the names of her ex-lover's multiple partners, Ntalami went on to say that her lover never came clean and never apologized, even when confronted with evidence.

"The deceit and lies spewn during the relationship have been devastating, to say the least," said Ntalami.

"What’s worse, they have never admitted to what they have done, let alone apologized, despite me giving them several chances all year to come clean," 

She went on to say that as soon as her lover found out that her wandering crotch had been exposed, she fled and would occasionally float in and out of her life. 

"This explains the unfollows and disengagement on social media and socially." she added. 

"What they have done to me is downright heartless. It is not right to go around hurting someone you claim to love, putting on a facade that all is well, while leaving their life in disarray and not being accountable for the pain and trauma caused," 

Ms Ntalami who says she is now on the mend also seized the moment to thank the LGBTQ community, and at the same time, apologise for the lies and for skipping out on the LGBTQ-themed events. 

"To the LGBTQ community, thank you for your constant love and support. I feel terrible because I was lied to, therefore in turn you were too," she wrote. 

"It breaks my heart when I recall how hard you rode for us and looked up to us as your beacons. This explains my absence in the events by the company. I will always love and support you, and if nothing else, all the work, effort and love I painstakingly put into the company we both began is the biggest evidence of that, and my greatest gift to you,"